May 02, 2012

Life goes on...


Lot of things happened in last couple of months! Personal losses aside, this was a tough and consuming time for me. Thought of writing did come to me as a means of letting out but then nothing would come out of me!  It was as if words were choking not only while speaking but also in writing.

Anyway, last week we had decided to go to Shirdi and after making the arrangements, we had actually started. But after a small incident with a truck and some thoughts that we should not be taking a pilgrimage after the death of my father-in-law set in and we decided to abandon the trip and my booking amount in hotels to head back home. After I came back, people started saying I thought so, I wanted to tell you this and so on but it never occurred to me that I should not be taking this  trip!

Anyway, life goes on and we will see better days. Stay tuned…

January 25, 2012

Why and how have we become so manipulable?


Two events yesterday jolted me out of my digital sleep. One was the ab(pre)sence of Salman Rushdie in Jaipur festival and other one being the Indian babies separated from Parents by Norwegian government. Though the two events were not connected, even from timeline perspective, what surprised and shocked me is the media treatment given to these two issues.

While few channels were busy in making programs about how and why Salman Rushdie was not allowed to be even digitally present, they were interviewing him and other “distinguish” panel members, making his presence felt all over the place. His omnipresence was of such magnitude that the organizers cried on the dais, people were shouting slogans in the streets and panelists were fighting whether it was right or wrong! Even the thought whether Rushdie has manipulated the festival!  For some time, it looked like he was the only news coming out of Jaipur. Talks about our obsession, isn’t it?

Second issue was of Indian couple in Norway who came on Indian TV after 8 months of Norwegian governments separating the kids from the parents. We had all the masala available to be made as a Bollywood movie – crying parents, emotional grandparents, lawyers, psychiatrists, callers, human right activists, external affair minister etc. You couldn’t have asked for more. In their emotional and cultural right fight with Norwegian government, they had to reach out for help and they did. But what did our channels do? Again, get a distinguish panel, not having a clue on the events that culminated in Norway government taking away the babies and giving them foster homes!  All they had to talk about is Norway's cultural insensitivity and cruelty! It would have been evening in Norway but none cared to get their side of the story.

I agree wholeheartedly with filmmaker Shekhar Kapoor’s question in one of the shows – “Why and how have we become so manipulable?”


August 26, 2011

Get what you deserve and deserve what you get


Some of the thoughts in the article might come as a shock to you in the initial reading and I assure you that it is intended J. You can’t help but relate to yourself and hence the shock or rejection or at least surprise, as was the case with me. Don’t worry, it is not personal and I am not the author so you now this is not my views J but yes, I subscribe to many things said here and I thought of sharing with you. Why?  ‘cause I think it needs to be shared and I must!

Now to the articles - to understand the article, you need to have a perspective for which the initial shock is needed! Take your time, may be a take a tea/coffee break and then re-read. You may be able to understand it better and probably it might change the way you think/act.

And if it has not surprised you, to be least, then you are faring better than me and are more mature than me J

Think we need to discuss? Let us!